Tuesday, November 25, 2008

Lonely [ Know Yourself ]

We all will agree that life is not smooth like a skating ground. It has many ups and downs and we have to pass through all of them. We suffer frequent blows from life and also acquire many gifts from it. as madonna says in one of her song :- " life sometimes drop you down like the limbs of a tree, It sways and it swings and it bends until it makes you see. There's only so much you can learn in one place, The more that you wait, the more time that you waste." Often our hard times last for very long pushing us into despair. These are the times when we start feeling very lonely. The friends, who always seemed to be a tough support, no more appear the same due to their inability to solve our problem. We feel secluded and lonesome. But these are the times when each of us has to realize that everyone is lonely, at one time or the other, in this world unless he/she has a lifetime friend. And only one person in this whole world can be such a friend to you and that is you Yourself only. No one can stay forever with us except ourselves. No one can understand us better than ourselves and no one can love our dreams, aspirations and us more than ourselves. Therefore, for a blissful life, having friendship with oneself is the most important thing.If you are feeling lonely while confronting any hardship of your life, try having friendship with yourself. You are the only person who can be fully honest to you. You are the one who knows all your strengths and weaknesses and only you can help yourself overcome your limitations. You are the one whom you will find with yourself at every moment of your life. We feel lonely because we don’t want to live with ourselves. It is not easy to strike a good friendship with yourself as all good as well as dark secrets of your life stand bare before your soul. But if you succeed at this, all your life will be a beautiful journey. Even if, at some point, there won’t be any friend at your side, your best friend will still be there with you…inside you…I hope your bond with yourself strengthens with every passing moment.
------- Karan Upadhya.


Anonymous said...

this is so nice

Anonymous said...

love it