Thursday, May 21, 2009

Does Beauty Really Matter?

Do Beauty really matter ?... I get Pissed when someone goes on n on with the way they look. There's No doubt that majority of people around us wants a change in life, But Its absurd when someone says that they want to look like somebody else, my question is " How can you not love yourself.?".

It's a fact that Humans are never contented, But lately Humans have become so greedy n retarded that they have crossed the level of satisfaction. People think that transforming themself or changing themself by Cosmetic surgery, Botox, Beauty products, Skin Surgeries etc.. can make them look Beautiful. They think that its the In thing in the Society n easy way to Gain Success [ such SICK thoughts ]. There are so many people who are suffering from different problems, but nothing in this world stops them. Why do people think about what others will say or Do rather than believing themself. People want to change themself so much that they have forgotten what they really want. You cannot really be like someone else, can you? here I'm referring not only to the celebrities or super models but also to those people who are tagged as the Attractive people. Have you'll forgotten everyone is Beautiful as everyone has their own Charm n Qualities. Believe me in reality the most Attractive or Beautiful person feels insecure on the way they look. We all have criticised others on the way they look, Haven't we?. I know that we humans r never contented and satisfied in life, but we are going insane when it comes up to Beauty. When we watch T.V or browse thru Newspaper or magazines we often see these flawless models n perfectly curved celebrities or models, but we all know its not real. We also know the pain they have to go thru. Sometimes in desperation of seeking good looks they reach depravity & might even turn up looking like Michael Jackson. [ scary isnt it?]. What's the point of changing yourself when you know its Dangerous. In this world everybody is different, some are skinny, some are fat, some are tall or some are short... no one in this world is a real judge to differentiate n comment on anyone. We can never advise others on "how to look or change oneself".

History says that the complexity of good looks started from Girls, but as we are stepping to the future even boys are feeling the same. I wont blame girls to be the cause of spreading the Beauty complexity epidemic 'coz i think everyone is mature n intelligent enough to understand, especially what happens when something goes off hand n in excess [ remember Michael Jackson Picture again ].Personality is what you should have. When we talk about personality, Beauty doesn't come anywhere in the picture. Its a persons character. If you think I'm wrong please Do some more survey on Personality. Off late I've seen boys having their eyebrows done, facial, pedicure, manicure, n some who are a complete spa junkies. Its not at all bad to do any of these beauty treatment, infact its a part of Hygiene, but you shouldn't be addicted to it. Ive experienced these situations personally, especially when we usually visit a salon. The hairstylist will always promote his products while doing his work.. always bragging about his products, like his exceptionally good hair cream, face cream, foot cream and god alone knows about those other creams n oils. He gives us a description of it so beautifully as if it made in heaven and will work magics.. trust me its bullshit..but He gotta find a source to earn more money like everyone else in this world. These hairstylist and others are very smart in upselling as they will only target Beauty Freak coz they know they will buy his products to seek good looks regardless whether its expensive or the contents. But do you really think it will work magic ? everyone knows that the answer is Probably [ either yes or no ] . Our world is so superficial n so backward that people easy get attracted to anything to do with beauty. They have forgotten that Beauty lies in the eyes of the Beholder. Beauty products, cosmetic surgery, spas, Gym, beauty clinics, Skin lighting etc... they are so much of a hype now.....You browse through the newspaper, magazines or television 7 out of 10 advertisements are often related to beauty products .... don't you think its crazy ? .... Do you also know for a fact that India is the one of the Leading countries to sell the maximum number of Fairness creams .... God alone knows why there's differentiation between Skin tones, its so stupid..have you'll forgotten :- Tyra Banks, Naomi Campbell, Samuel Jackson, Will Smith , Beyonce, Ludacris, Oprah Winfrey , Halley Berry, Mary j Blige, Christina Milian. Don't you know if a person is born with a specific colour can never change his/her colour , even the worlds most expensive fairness creams cant do any magic, they can just reduce your skin tone only if its Tanned. It Doesn't really matter if your black or white 'coz in this world you can be anyone you want to be until you have the most Important factor or power that is "Confidence to attain n complete any goals " if you have Confidence you're always gonna be lucky with the Lottery of SUCCESS. With Confidence , Persuasion, Hardwork, Effective Communication skills, Sense of humor n Intelligence counts as well. [ Qualities for a good Personality ]. Make these qualities a part of your life n it will work magics..... So stop wasting time and think smart . n one last thing Don't let others take over your mind, 'coz others wont give you the life you want n deserve ....

So guys Grow up, n Think Smart.

-----------------Karan Upadhya.

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

i love this so much . but suggestion highlight ur comment field coz i had to search the whole blog to get that ,. but amazing ..

Susan....

Troy Monteiro said...

Hey...the Bolg is Awsome !!!!! a Must Read n Eye Opener Loved the Material ....Gr8 Job Karan Keep it Up !!!.....

Karan Upadhya [ Official ® ] said...

i will try to highlight the comment field .... if i can .. btw thnxs troy, it means a lot .